52e: Pass your words from three doors before you speak

Before you speak (or write a message to someone), pass your message from three gates that ask these questions, as Rumî said, “Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it kind?” The first door eliminates the things your mind makes up. The second door eliminates the thoughts that arise without a filter, the thoughts you have but don’t contribute to the common good. The third door ensures you don’t break hearts with your words because once a heart is broken, it’s impossible to repair it.

• Related Note(s):
  • 6: Being a boss who cares personally;
  • 13: Be Kind at Work;
  • 17: Public Speaking and Improving Skills;
  • 33: Elevating Others Around You;
  • 46: Coaching Yourself;